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At this point, having patience is crucial. If your bond with your new romantic interest is genuinely strong, everything will evolve naturally. You’ll both contribute to the relationship without keeping score.
With enough time invested, a relationship will flourish.
If your performance in bed leads the other person to fake a deeper connection for the sake of intimacy, that’s a sign of dishonesty. When you discover this, you should make the choice to end that physical relationship.
Not everyone you meet will provide you with what you need and deserve.
Your best strategy is to stay vigilant, recognize the untrustworthy partners, and bravely distance yourself from them. Then, begin anew. Keep doing this until you discover a genuine connection that consistently proves to be meaningful.
On the flip side, you could find someone worthwhile. It’s possible that their feelings may change after intimacy. However, this won’t occur due to sleeping with them too early, nor will it relate to following a supposed “3 date rule.”
Constructive individuals don’t criticize others for actions in which they were also involved at the same time. They see intimacy with someone they like as a positive experience.
The “3 Date Rule” Isn’t the Solution
For many individuals, intimacy holds significant importance in a relationship.
Some prefer to determine early on if that aspect of a potential partnership is solid.
The timing of intimacy does not guarantee the success or failure of a relationship.
Some relationships may initiate sexual activity on the first, second, or third date, while others may not.
What truly nurtures and sustains a relationship is the connection shared between partners. Intimacy is merely one method of demonstrating that bond.
Delaying intimacy is akin to using red dye in a Red Velvet cake recipe.
Some may commend you for adhering to “the rules,” but honestly, it’s entirely optional. And simply following the rules won’t save your cake if you lack the essential ingredients like flour, eggs, and more.
So, create the cake you desire to create. Before long, you’ll encounter someone eager for seconds and thirds.